This blog evolved into a diary and a place of refuge for me to express who and where I am. It was not intended to be that but because it is now what it is -a personal account of what I am going through and reflections on life lessons, I think I will stick with it (format-wise). I'd like to see where it takes me.
I am..
- THE ULTIMATE DIVA
- Whenever there is a beginning, there is an end. It is not what came before or how things ended but what happened in between that makes life exciting - do not change the heartaches for they are colors in your own painting called My Life. Let them be vivid and bright!
Wednesday, July 18, 2007
Asia for a few days...
Sunday, July 15, 2007
HELLO?!?!
Saturday, July 14, 2007
I am a Piscean...
To be a Piscean (born under the sign of Pisces) you have to be born between February 20 to March 20. Pisces is a Sun sign. I personally get very well along with those born under the sign of Cancer, Scorpio an other Pisces. There is a high chance I would like Leos and Libras. I tend to not get so well along with Gemini, Sagittarius or a Virgo.
Friday, July 13, 2007
A woman is desperate to have a man in your life when...
- she needs a ring on your left ring finger to define herself as a woman
- she laughs when he makes comments about how all women are bad drivers
- he points a finger at her when things go wrong
- she lets his philandering ways be explained away as just a "boys will be boys" thing
- she does not say anything when he looks at other women when he is with her
- she allows him to call her demeaning names
- she settles for a lesser paying job because she does not want to earn more than he does
- she think it is OK if he disrespects his mother
- when he asks her not to think too much - she obeys
- he tells her his friends are more important than anyone else
- he asks her to just let him be himself but she has to change her ways
- he sets the rules and she is just to follows
- she hangs on to every word he says
- she cries more than she cares to count
- her friends keep asking her what does she see in this man
Are women really that desperate to have a man in their life to stand these kinds of demeaning and condescending behavior? It is sad when men think that women's empowerment and independent, self sufficient ways are a devil's work. These are men issues not women's issues. I am not here to dole out advise but you know what they say about when the cup runeth over...
I would not like to think that a young girl out there is considering settling for less and will resort to dumbing herself down just to get a good catch of a husband. I've recently heard of a friend who did this and now that she is racking on the years, gave up a career to be the Stepford wife, well, he and his wandering eyes are at it again.
Desperate Housewifes is a show on TV and it is a comedy - but I sure don't see anything funny about it when it comes to real life. Do you?
Thursday, July 12, 2007
Things that make you go...There's truth to that...
. We drive in parkways and park in driveways.
. Why do people get pets and have other people walk them?
. Why do young boys call little girls "ugly" when they like them?
. When people say they are going to be honest with you, they are going to tell you a lie
. Why does cursing always involve a mention of some body part?
. Copycats, don't they want to be originals?
. People who do not take daily showers - it shows and they smell...what are they thinking?
. The secret of successful marriage - is just that- a secret.
. People who ask you for too many favors - is not a friend - he is an opportunist and that makes you a ...sucker.
. Women who walk around attracting attention - know exactly what they are doing.
. The best advise an arresting officer gives you - you have the right to remain silent - you should!
. People who say they have a sense of humor and are funny usually don't and aren't.
. Guys do not like it when a woman thinks - it can spell trouble.
. You go to the doctor when you are not feeling good, and the first thing they ask you is - "so, what is wrong"..hello!
. People who litter are ignorant. Action no thought = ignorance.
. I do not impose my choice of music to you - so please keep your music to yourself. No need to share. Thank you.
. People who say they are cultured - have just read and saw it - not actually lived it.
. Adjusting to any change is 99% mental and 1% physical.
. Someone said to me - THE END is just the beginning. And I totally get it.
. Forget the end result - enjoy the process and the journey in getting there. Now, that is living.
. Death comes soon enough, why should you kill yourself even sooner?
. Nobody can take care of you better than you, yourself, can. Best advise ever given to me.
. Expect some heavy showers once in awhile, you get to enjoy the sunshine better next time.
. I can lay on my Tagalog accent on my english when a teller marketer calls.
...more next time..
Wednesday, July 11, 2007
Is Chivalry Dead?
Tuesday, July 10, 2007
Revisiting....Annie Hall
The DVD version I have is in English (subtitles available in spanish and french). The influence Diane Keaton had on me after I saw the movie for the first time on was enormous. I started dressing up (or down) like her, ties, vest and pants - I loved the feeling that wearing ties and vest/pants gave me. It was so much fun more than any idea I had about women's lib.
In the movie Diane (Annie Hall) played a ditzy singer that Woody Allen fell in love with. In this movie, Woody Allen's quest for true love he had to overcome his own "wackiness" and go all the way to LA to get Diane back. Movie starts in New York. Very funny stuff - it won the 1977 Oscars Best Picture, Best Actress (D. Keaton) and Best Orig. Screenplay (Allen and Brickman).
Now that I revisit it after years of not watching it - it is definitely an ALL TIME Favorite. It leaves me in stitches. I could not stop laughing. Woody Allen as a neurotic comedian is hilarious. Paul Simon is also in this movie, he played the lover Diane took after she left Allen.
Diane Keaton looked so young here, she looked closer to how I first remembered her in Baby Boom ('80s) but she has aged gracefully as evident in Something's Gotta Give movie. I always liked her as an actress.
Woody Allen is brilliant in his craft - you gotta give the man that - he is a great storyteller. His brand of comedy is a genre in its own. It is always such a pleasure to revisit and enjoy any of his movies. I remember how much I love this movie now that I picked up this Woody Allen DVD - and to think it took me several months to get it from the store - they were always out of copies.
Pick up your own copy today and revisit - Annie Hall. It will remind you how great it was to go to the movies...and watch Woody Allen movies. Watch it and tell me what you think. Would love to hear from you.
Monday, July 9, 2007
Me..
Sunday, July 8, 2007
Have you had one of these yet?
With a cup of hot java - this baby- is a tasty way to start your day and will definitely brighten your cloudy Sunday.
See, here is something that is good and delicious - no syrup, no ketchup needed. Just good ol' pancakes and sausage. Nice breakfast - to go!
ARK
I had a blast watching this movie. I thought about going to watch Ratatouille, but the lines on a weekend was long. And the thought of kids in a movie theater at night past their bedtime was just not my idea of a relaxing Saturday night at the movies. So I passed on the the Ratatouille.
The movie was in fun - Imagine a 21st century man building an ARK in the middle of Virginia. And all the humor that went with employing animals, the jokes about what they can and canot do. John Goodman is in this movie as well ( he was Roseanne's husband in Roseanne TV show) he was good as the unscrupulous congressman. Morgan Freeman played his reprised role as GOD (remember BRUCE ALMIGHTLY). The victory dance was a nice "silly"touch.
I would tell a friend to watch it. I love comedies so I am biased to them. With a small bag of popcorn, a hotdog, soda and pretzel, shot my diet but I skipped dinner altogether before and after the movie.
And I do not want to spoil the ARK idea on you but it is on 6:14 check THE BOOK. It is all there.
Go have a nice day at the movies, and you can thank me later. Or better yet send me an email telling me how you were LOL or NOT.
Sunday, it is another good day to go to the movies...enjoy it.
Saturday, July 7, 2007
A good night's rest = deep sleep
I never had difficulty going to sleep when I was much younger. I remember just putting my head on the pillow and to dreamy land I go. But now, I have to really work at it to get some sleep. I sleep in a quiet room but there is always the ambulance, the police siren in the background in the middle of the night, a neighbor slamming her door and car alarms going off, horns honking, blaring boom boxes and others. I guess these sleep deterrents are universal, but how does one ignore all these and still go to sleep.
I know you can take some sleep tablets or put on your ipod or shut all doors and windows in the house ( I do not like this, it gives me the thought of being in a closed coffin - yikes!). And this is just when you are alone trying to get some sleep.
A nice hot shower helps, or a half a glass of milk, and some very dark lights in the bedroom - NO TV or radio on. Or even reading help, I was told. But one thing I've found out is that when I am exhausted - I can't sleep either. I just toss and turn and turn and toss (sigh). I try relaxing and visualizing and all that, it works sometimes but not all the time. Trust me I have counted sheep too.
I guess, as long as the mind is going and you are thinking, sleep is harder to achieve.
It is a nightly things for me to see what will work and put me to sleep . So far really bad TV shows or summer re-runs works as well as any tablet I can take and it is safer (relatively) for most of the time, I start watching TV and I end up having the TV watch me before I grope for the remote and turn that thing OFF. ...zzzzzzz
Friday, July 6, 2007
Foot fetish
Thursday, July 5, 2007
Moving to Buenos Aires...
I have made several previous trips to BsAs in the past, I enjoyed every single one of them. I learn new things each trip and I hope to carve my small niche in such a large city. My porteno's family and circle of friends are all supportive of this. I will not go in to personal details but I believe as I tread my way through the hustle and bustle of such a humungous city, I will have some experiences that would fun and not so fun. I will post all of them in here.
I come to a city of very passionate people, that much I know. Everyone seems to have strong opinions about everything and everyone. This would be an exciting time of my life. I come with an open mind and an eagerness to be a part of what my porteno loves. That alone is a big part of why I am moving from one country like the USA to Argentina. Well, if truth be told, I will take baby steps like I said. I will live there for a few months and then go to the US for a few months and then back and forth again. I am fortunate to have him and his support and love.
Let me tell you this, some really funny posts are up ahead. The open letter to BsAs drivers was a true take on what I had witnessed as I was there. Do not get me started on lack of good customer service - that always gets on my nerves. But so far nothing really outlandish and brutal inferior customer service has come my way -so if it is just so-so, you will not hear or read about it in here. But when something atrocious I experience or witness, trust me, you will read about it here!
In the next few weeks I hope to make the first baby step towards living in Buenos Aires, please join me in one of the most thrilling adventures of my life. BsAs is so big of an experience that I would want to share it. And like any other blog in the internet, I will reflect my own experiences and will not throw aspersions and judgements to the people of Argentina in general but focus on happenings on a case to case basis. So lay off the nasty emails...
Argentinians I have met so far are very nice people. An occassional "I do not really care for that Arse" come my way but you find those anywhere. I am looking forward to meeting more very nice Argentinians and partake in their culture and traditions - all in the name for my love to my own porteno. Personally, I am going because I am one to never turn down opportunities to see the world. What great fun, huh?
If you have questions, just go ahead and write. And I will try to answer them for you, but please note though that it might take me sometime to find answers to your BsAs related question since - I do not speak Spanish that well. I told you this will exciting.
Tuesday, July 3, 2007
Table Manners....
Today, my son and I went to a fancy Chinese restaurant for a late lunch. We were seated by a very nice and friendly server ( they are no longer called waitresses, pls. take note). So we were there and we ordered our teas and perused the menu some more...and as we were doing this more people were trickling in and being seated. Behind us was a nice family of four, all adults. At one o'clock of us was another family of four - a couple in their 30's with 2 young girls. And 45degrees from our table about 7 to 9 feet aways was a couple in their twenties.
All was well and our server returned and we placed our order. The tables around us had their own food servers who took their orders. As our appetizer arrived , the 20ish couples soup came as well.
What drew my attention to this 20ish couple was that the girl was not only talking loudly but because she kept putting too much food into her mouth, and they were only having their soup. I tried not to look and kept about my business. And then our entrees arrived, I proceeded to pick up my chopsticks and my son was saying how delicious the food was and the shrimp was just spicy - not too spicy. As I looked over my right, I saw the girl again, this time with a chipmunk face, she had so much food in her mouth, they were all stuffed in her cheeks and she was talking at the same time. She was even drinking water in large gulps and even then the chipmunk face would still be there.
Needless to say I was not able to finish my salad, The sight of this was unappetizing and lack of table manners.
Did you know that you can have your mouth closed and still chew loudly? Smacking sounds are just not right, closed or open mouth. I know people hear themselves eat. It can be offensive to the person sitting next to or across from you.
I think table manners need some update now and again - a check update - I know sometimes I forget that I am out of water and I still take the last pretend sip and it makes a slurp sound - sometimes not all the time.
Smack sound during chewing though is really bad table manners. Even elbows on the table can be acceptable but smack chewing just an all time NO NO.
Oh BTW tomorrow I will have my salad for lunch, and this time I can eat it in the safety of my own dining room.
Monday, July 2, 2007
Talent....others think they have it. Huh!
Regardless of Simon, Randy and Paula - that is for another posting - but these people really believe that what they delude themselves as noise coming out from their mouth is called singing. I am sure - for it to called talent - it has to come from a Higher Power and that you as the instrument and vessel of such talent will nourish it and take voice lessons - if you so desire to be a singer. OMG!!
I really thought the days of Hung was over. When he sang that Ricky Martin song a few years back the tune was familiar but for the life of me, I could not understand one freakin' word he was saying. Is that /was that singing? I do not think so.
Oh I do not sing because I do not want to offend anyone but I know good music and talent when I hear it. Barbara Streisand, now that is one God-given talented singer. Celine Dion is another one that tops that list. Johnny Mathis and Nat King Cole now those are talented singers. If you want some more time relevant singers, you have John Legend, Sting, Coldplay front singer Martin. You hear them sing and you hear something pleasurable and awe inspiring. Remember when you hear someone sing you close your eyes and just savor the words and the melody? That is singing with beauty.
It never ceases to amaze me how people would come on TV and embarrass themselves like this - in quest for their 15 minute of shame. Puleezzzz!
You know you have laughed and laughed hard at these poor people and how "stupid" they made themselves look on national TV - and shows like American Idol though there is a winner at the end, we go through the tens of eardrum piercing, headache inducing noise called auditioning. Stop it all ready! I cringe everytime someone on American Idol sings of key and I turn to the remote and put it on mute, because let us be honest here, we are horrified to hear this! But since it brings a laugh we keep coming back.
I am not sure we really would want to broadcast these kinds of "aspiring and wannabe" britney spears or the new madonna. We have those people already - why imitate - don't they want to be originals? And oh and by the way - American Idol was a ratings show in the past, but I think they are loosing steam. It's not a novelty act anymore and thank god if that show stops airing.
I am embarrassed for those people who thought God gave them talent and the truth is - for we all know He did not! Next.....
Sunday, July 1, 2007
Fresh Whole Pineapples
It was a perfect day to go run to the grocery and get a whole fresh pineapple. I got one from Von's since they had the best sale price for a whole pineapple and it helped that I was in the part of town. When I got home I sliced off the outer skin and started taking off the "eyes" with a unique way I hold the knife and cut them off. As I was 1/2 way doing this I could smell the sweet aroma of a ripe pineapple and it was a perfect fruit. All of it was yellow but firm and no bruising on the fruit flesh, I was starting to salivate before I could finish my task.
As soon as I was done, I cut the pineapple in rings, with the center an all. Cut in equal circles and the juices of the fruit was running down my cutting board. Always remember to use a very sharp knife when doing this, it comes out professional looking and you could even mistake it as coming from a can but you know it came fresh, the crown of the pineapple sits inside the trash can a few feet next to me.
The fresh, juicing and sweet pineapple was delicious. I always eat fresh pineapple slices with a fork and a few grains of coarse and freshly ground rock salt. Always have done it that way and always will.
Summer is not summer at all unless fresh fruit is abundant and flavorful like this one. I think tomorrow I will go look for cantaloupe. Oh by the way, I have some slices left should you want to taste any and it should be gone after dinner tonight, I am serving the rest as dessert. It should be a hit.
Happy Summertime everyone!
What am I doing right now?
Future Topic for Another Day
- 2021 The Great Resignation
- Grief defined
- What makes a family?
- Toxic work environment